Skip to main content

Posts

Break the fight for practice cycle

So many parents come to me with the subject 'we are tired about fighting with them to practice'.   It shouldn't be a fight.    It shouldn't be part of a bargaining tool.  It should be a part of daily life.   Do you brush your teeth everyday?  You should make music, every day. I think sometimes, that the word 'practice' get's a negative sheen.   Perhaps having the musician 'serenade' during meal preps would work. Let's 'make some music'.   Mommy and I feel like dancing slowly, what have you been working on that will suit the mood?    We want a concert!  Let's make programs, put on a nice outfit, set up the living room as a performance hall.  Music making should be a fun rewarding outlet for the entire family.   It should not be stressful. Find a routine that works for your family.   Is your musician an early bird, always looking for things to do before leaving for school?  Perhaps play your music after breakfast and brushing

What is wrong with my $99.00 ebay violin? (and other such instruments)

At the beginning of the school year there is a flutter of activity around starting a new instrument.  In our area it usually begins in fourth grade.  A big event is held in each elementary school where your child can try various woodwind, brass and string instruments.    There are also area vendors offering instrument rentals.  Big business most parents think.  I say yes and no.   Here is why.... Yes, those vendors are in business to make money.  But they also know what they are talking about.  When you rent an instrument, you get one of quality without shelling out the big bucks.  A GOOD saxophone new can be close to a thousand dollars.  A GOOD violin can be close to eight hundred dollars JUST FOR THE VIOLIN.  A GOOD flute can be close to five hundred dollars.  I speak from experience as a parent for the woodwinds.   I speak from experience as an educator and professional musician on the violin. I wince when a parent says I'm just going to buy a $99.00 violin on ebay/amazon.  

How to pick a GREAT private music teacher

Might sound like an odd subject for a music teacher to choose to write about.  But hear me out on this.  I have had to do this very thing several times as a studio owner when I need to extend our sub contractor reach.  I can only teach so many hours in the day.  I love what I do, I feel I am good at what I do (and my retention rate and students who go on to higher education also backs up that statement) but I still have room to learn and grow. I feel that a GREAT private music teacher is one who doesn't treat their teaching schedule as a job.  A person who truly loves sharing their knowledge, goes the extra step (few minutes or mile) to not just stop the learning because the clock says TIMES UP!  A person who doesn't put a dollar amount on every minute. Now do not get me wrong, I make a living at being a private music teacher.    I also work a lot more than the average american work week because I give a lot of lessons away too.  I also own the studio, so other things a

Recital Time is Approaching..........why is performing so important and what is expected

Recital is a time to share all your musicians hard work.  Sure, it can be stressful.....even a bit scary.  But that's OK.    We want to have our musicians get out of their 'comfort zone'.  Not just in their musical lives, but in their every day lives.  Experiencing new things helps us grow!   So, here are some pointers and information regarding our upcoming recital.  Recital Guest fees are now due, and can be made to Ms. Sandie.  Guest fees cover the donation to the venue, program printing and insurance fees.   It will be held on June 14th.    There will be two recitals.  Your musician will have a solo in only one of the recitals.    On May 20th we will post the programs in the waiting room.  Please come in and read the postings to find out which program your musician is in.  As we are five teachers strong now, this is the most time effective way we can get the information to you (just like a sports roster or a musical part audition listing!).  Thank you fo

A Learning Moment................

Please take a moment and watch this video of a young musician...... You might have had lots of different thoughts going through your mind as you watched.  Some pitches were off.  Her rhythm was stalled.  She herself made a face at the end of the song. That's not what I saw.  I saw a student who has struggled to read music while playing keep her eyes on the page more than her violin. I saw a student start to recognize when to use her fourth finger.  Was it in pitch all the time?  No.  But she saw when she should use it, and she tried. I saw a violin start to fall and this young lady lifted it back up without my reminder. I corrected her once.  Later in the song she made a mistake and self corrected, without my reminder. I saw a musician.  I am quite proud of this young lady. Taking lessons does not a musician make.  Following and retaining directions does. Ms. Sandie

Lessons from a HomeSchooling Parents Perspective

A great big thank you to Carrie S Moore, home-schooling parent of 5 children plus the caregiver to darling husband Nate, a favorite dog and dozens of chickens. When our daughter showed interest in learning to play the violin we realized that seeking outside lessons was about putting our faith and trust in an expert of that instrument.  Though my husband has a substantial background in music, he isn't knowledgable in this particular instrument, so we put our trust in Ms. Sandie. We went in realizing that our  daughter wasn't going to be an expert of the instrume nt over night, but that it would take time for her to be proficient at the instrument. As a homeschooling mother of five, I know that practice makes perfect. Just as you need to practice your math facts to master them, so you need to practice your instrument to master it. Allowing our child to struggle in its challenges,

The grand arrival in pictures

A thirty year dream for my students was realized today.   A wonderful family at the studio clued me in to the news that their church (St. Peters of Cheshire CT) was looking to give away their Baby Grand.  I have been actively looking for the last 3 years.  We have played some beautiful looking one's that sounded awful.  This one has been well loved, but still sounds lovely.   We plan on having it refinished. Great big shout out to McCabe Movers of Southington CT.  This is the second big move they have done for me.  Very qualified and cordial company.  I am looking forward to lots of solo recitals and grand performances to come.  Cannot wait to see my accompanists face tomorrow when he walks in for ensemble rehearsal.